How to Invite Peace into your Wedding Day
Wedding days are the culmination of months, if not years, of planning. Maybe you’re looking at the amount of time and energy you’ve put into everything, and you’re feeling a sense of anxiety as you look toward the big day. As an introvert who had a big wedding, I took so many intentional steps to invite peace into our wedding day. If you want to feel a sense of peace and be present in each moment of your wedding, keep reading!
Plan Your Timeline & Shot List Ahead of Time
This one is HUGE and will save so much time and stress! If you’re feeling stuck on how to structure your day, ask your wedding coordinator (or me!) to help you plan a flow for the day that factors in all of the important details of your wedding day. Along with this, I highly recommend creating a shot list for the bridal party and family photos! Creating a list ahead of time assures that you’ll get every combo you want without leaving anyone out, and I can run through the list to save time. This also gives you the opportunity to share any family dynamics that will be helpful for me to be aware of for photos to relieve any stress!
Give Yourself Extra Time for Things
When you’re planning your wedding timeline, I always recommend giving yourself an extra 15 minutes for every scheduled part of the day. The last thing you want to feel is behind or stressed! When you give yourself this extra buffer, you’re either going to feel on time or even ahead of time, which is such a great confidence boost!
Plan Intentional Moments with Your Partner
Sharing a first look with your partner, or even carving out some time after the ceremony, is so grounding and a beautiful reminder of what your wedding is all about: your love for each other! Whether you’re introverted or not, taking this time reminds you that you’re not alone and you have a teammate to lean on and celebrate with from sun up to sun down. Take a moment (or two!) away from the camera, the noise, the whirlwind, to center yourselves and rest in each other’s company.
Have a Point Person for the Day Of
People are guaranteed to have questions on the wedding day, from “Where is the bride?” to “Where does this floral arrangement go?” and you shouldn’t have to worry about these details! Whether you have a coordinator or a trusted friend or family member, having a point person allows you to relax, knowing that everything is getting taken care of. A helpful tip: make sure everyone knows who your point person is ahead of time, and that people have their number!
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